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Overwhelm Zelana Montminy Overwhelm Zelana Montminy

The Truth About December No One Wants to Admit

December arrives with sparkle and pressure, promising joy in a season when most of us are already emotionally exhausted. This piece explores why we feel numb, why joy feels slippery, and how slowing down, not adding more, is the path back to feeling again.

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Grief, Overwhelm Zelana Montminy Grief, Overwhelm Zelana Montminy

The Kind of Gratitude We Forgot

Gratitude isn’t a performance or a list of blessings. It’s the quiet courage to notice what’s still true, even in a hard year. This reflection explores real, grounded gratitude—the kind that steadies the nervous system and sits beside grief without demanding cheerfulness.

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